Address Change To Overcome Anxiety And Depression
Each of us is constantly confronted with choices and decisions that involve changes in some aspect of our lives.
There are people who stop in front of changes remain stuck in the sands of indecision, that instead of becoming a solid ground and support, they turn into quicksand ready to suck all our being.
How do you make decisions to face reality?
That, however hard it is to expect them.
I think that happened to anyone you want to hide, turn off the light and escape safely under the covers, but be overwhelmed by this desire, does that make it even more brutal awakening that inevitably leads us back to reality.
Well, we have two choices, because there are always two choices, which are bound by our personal goal.
1. Remain as they are, I choose to remain at the mercy of events, appearance, and I suffer passively.
2. Try to find even the smallest crack to feel great. Let us always remember that: “The words that we say to ourselves affects us in both the THOUGHTS THAT actions.”
If I talk to myself saying “I can not help it, it is useless to me I’ll never be good” is like waving the white flag of surrender. We surrendered ourselves, our only real enemy.
We have given up hope. Without hope we do not see the future, because we reject this and immerse ourselves in the past. But the past can not be changed. Read the rest of this entry »
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Aug 12th, 2010
Anxiety: Take Responsibility For “curing”
Psychological recovery from social anxiety disorder is, first, if we assume the responsibility to initiate change.
Responsibility is the ability to meet their own needs, without preventing the others to meet them and is a ’skill that is learned through a complex process.
Warning: take responsibility for improving their disorder does not mean it caused. It ‘absolutely necessary to be aware and realize that we are not to procure such suffering. We have no guilt.
Apart from this assumption is tantamount to failure in achieving our goal of psychological recovery.
Being responsible means, therefore, be able to respond and react, to become masters of our destiny, making choices, decisions and respecting them.
This ability gives us the power to change our behavior, to act constructively for our own good and if we make a mistake we must accept it.
We always remember that we are human, and fallible, we are not perfect, never will, nor others expect that from us.
Taking responsibility is to accept mistakes and learn from them, conceived as opportunities for learning.
If we are responsible for change will be easier to address and overcome the disorder.
Bibliography:
“The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook”, New York, New Harbinger Publishers. E.J. Bourne (1995).
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Aug 9th, 2010